In the aftermath of World War II, the concept of friendship played a pivotal role in shaping a new world order. Hungary, emerging from the shadows of war, witnessed the rise of organizations like the Hungarian Women’s Democratic Federation (MNDSz). This umbrella organization united women across social classes and backgrounds, bonded by their love for their country and commitment to anti-fascism.
The MNDSz’s affiliation with the Women’s International Democratic Federation (WIDF) opened doors to international connections, fostering friendships among women from diverse linguistic and cultural backgrounds. The notion of female friendship, with its intimate and reciprocal nature, became central to the solidarity within these organizations.
The idea of friendship was also harnessed by the Soviet Union in its post-war policies, particularly through Stalin’s ‘friendship of peoples’ campaign. This rhetoric aimed to portray the USSR as a benevolent superpower, fostering mutual respect and equality among nations in the socialist bloc.
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Magyar Nők Demokratikus Szövetsége during a 1st of May demonstration. Image from Chuckyeager tumblr via Fortepan.
Global socialism
Under the leadership of women who had braved the anti-fascist struggle, the MNDSz played a crucial role in mobilizing support for the Communist Party in Hungary. Their international engagements with the WIDF brought them into contact with like-minded women from around the world, reinforcing their sense of belonging to a global socialist community.
The friendships forged among these women transcended linguistic and cultural barriers, uniting them in their pursuit of democracy, peace, and the well-being of children. The sense of kinship and solidarity they experienced at international conferences like the first WIDF congress in Paris in 1945 further strengthened their commitment to their shared ideals.
Friendship as identity
The MNDSz’s magazine, ‘Asszonyok’, served as a platform for women to share their international experiences and reflect on their encounters with fellow WIDF members. Through articles and letters, the magazine highlighted the bonds of friendship that transcended borders and political differences.
One of the key figures in this network of friendships was Dolores Ibárruri, whose letter to Hungarian activists underscored the importance of solidarity and mutual support among women in the international socialist movement. The camaraderie and sense of belonging they experienced acted as a powerful motivator in their political endeavors.
Betrayal of friendship
However, the era of hope and camaraderie that characterized the immediate post-war period was short-lived. The Stalinization of Hungary in the late 1940s instilled fear and mistrust, leading to the breakdown of friendships and political alliances.
The trials and purges that followed exposed the fragile nature of these relationships, as women who had once stood united found themselves on opposing sides of political persecution. The betrayal of friendship in the face of political expediency marked a dark chapter in the history of these women and their shared ideals.
The legacy of these women, their friendships, and their political struggles serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities of solidarity and loyalty in times of political turmoil.
This article draws on research findings and personal narratives to shed light on the role of friendship in shaping post-WWII socialist movements and the challenges faced by women who dared to dream of a more just and equitable world.
It serves as a tribute to the enduring spirit of female friendship and solidarity, even in the face of betrayal and adversity.